1 The deathly Office

Was finally able to watch the last installment of Harry Potter, at infernes ok sya dahil nakapagsabi nanaman ako ng "UH-mazing" na 70 decibels loud after ng movie.

well guys, this ain't a movie review. Sorry to disappoint you. It's just that everytime I find it hard to write something, i try to dwell on recent memories and try to tell it NOT as it is. And sadly it's Harry Potter.

May pagka weirdo ako, allergic ako sa mainstream lalo na sa movies o kaya songs. For me kasi, pag masyadong napapagusapan ang isang bagay, i only find the thing overrated and disappointing not because it's awful but I simply expected too much of everything. Mas masarap idiscover ang mga bagay na untouched o virgin (tulad ko hahaha). I feel more passionate in appreciating it in its purest form and not just because of peer pressure.

Deathly office dahil kasalukuyan, ang opisina ko ay puno ng death o gusto kong punuin ng death. basta something to that effect. Korny lang di ba. Bigla ko na lang na realize na we find Harry Potter's life very magical and out of this world, when in reality we are all harry potter's in our own rights.

Harry Potter dahil napapaligidan tayo ng mga magical creatures all over the place. Wizards and B*tches na walang good and bad side. what's important is if they are on your side. Tama naman di ba?

here's the scenario bago ka sa office. You will now enter a new unfamiliar realm. And in your mind, you hear voldemort saying : "the boy who lived has come to die". and your adventure begins.

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the RON and HERMIONE character- amidst all the troubles and dangers that awaits you, you will find these people. Sila ang mga die-hard fans mo, angels in disguise, the misery groupmates or simply called friends. Most of them kung mapapansin ay halos same age-bracket mo. you may find others who are older or younger pero iba pa din ang bond with people of your age. May sarili kayong trip at malamang parepareho kayong pinag ttripan ng mga nakakatanda. The catch, since package deal kayo, damay ka na din sa mga problema o issue ng isa.

http://www.giantbomb.com/albus-dumbledore/94-5158/

the DUMBLEDORE character /the headmaster - in every organization makakakita ka ng ganito. Sila kadalasan ang itinuturi mong mentor o iyong guide. whenever something awful comes up, hindi ka matatahimik not unless you hear what he has to say. His words of wisdom brings you confidence and a sense of calmness. Kailangan mo pa din maging objective all the time. yer not'a puhppet yeh know. Beware, these kinds are very manipulative people. Di naman nila mararating ang kanilang current position if not for their persuasive powers. Anyway, you can still learn a lot from these guys.

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the SNAPE people - these are your seniors. Sila yung may pagka stiff paminsan minsan. Controlling. O kaya naman simpleng masungit. Mahirap makapalagayang loob kasi malakas pa sa palo ng baklameter ko ang mood swing nila. With their actions and sharp words, di mahirap isipin na super hate ka nila. But you have to look beyond that. Kadalasan kasi, yan para sa kanila ang most effective way to mold you to something better. Note to self, in dealing with this characters, absorb everything they teach you, and ignore the unnecessary PMS. :)

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the HAGRID of all times - No place is complete without this guys. Sila ang mga typical na mabait na makikilala mo na always willing to give a hand on things, but only to things na kaya ng powers nila. They are not the brightest of the stars and these are the characters you often forget along the way. They might easily blend in the background but do not undermine their pure heart and trustworthiness. 

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the GODFATHER / GODMOTHER - these are probably your former boss, a former mentor or teacher na you always seek advise about almost anything. They are the ones you are most comfortable with kahit minsan di naman na sila talaga connected sa iyong current issue. Simply put, masyado mong vina-value ang kanilang mga advise, kaya madalas sila din ang una mong pinag susumbungan.

the immortal VOLDEMORT character - these may be common or super rare for some. Pero ito ang mga taong maituturi mong mortal na kaaway mula umpisa hanggang dulo. At oo, bawat chapter ng buhay mo ay ginugulo nya. Be alert, this type may appear human at first but soon it will reveal it's true form. A monster. Kung oobserbahan, kadalasan ng mga ganitong uri ng tao ang pangit talaga na mas nakakadagdag sa Hate factor. The only way to stop them, BEAT THEM TO A PULP.

oh tama na to, mahaba na masyado at masyado nang geeky. I hate doing lists talaga, it's so addictive, you just can't effing stop. Pero kahit malakas maka-harry potter itong post, mas ok na to kesa magsulat ako ng top favorite orgasmic blogs ko, kahit wala namang nagtatanong sa kin dahil lang umaasa akong isama din nila ko sa list nila o kaya eh mapansin ako ng crush kong blogger hehehe. Saka ko na lang gagawin yun pag hindi na rin sya mainstream hehehe

tsup mwah dogstyle! 

0 Bully-vard of broken dreams

To most of my friends, kilala ako bilang ang bastos-malibog-barubal-walanghiya-papansin sweet, witty, thoughtful at syempre life of the party na kaibigan. BUTT! Kilala din ako bilang isa sa madalas mam-bully sa grupo. Kapag wala pa ang prof o di sya dumating at nakatambay lang kami sa classroom o kaya ay nagpapakagat sa lamok sa botanical garden, isa sa mga past time ko ang mam-baboy ng pagkatao ng isa sa mga blockmates ko, yep drawlots. Nung early college days pa nga, nung nauuso ang GM o group messaging sa buong block namin. Naka receive pa ko ng makabagdamdaming,

 "to Jade, sana naman minsan maging sensitive ka din sa mga sinasabi mo lalo na sa mga jokes mo. Nakakasakit ka na kasi minsan.. - Unanymous"

....nagulat ako at napatigil............................... pero like I care haha. Seriously hindi naman ako sagad sa butong bully (sagad sa taba lang). Pinipili ko lang naman kung sino mga tinatarantado ko. Kung madalas kitang asarin (mula ng magkita tayo hanggang mag hiwalay sa uwian, kahit pag nakatalikod ka na) ibig sabihin non. I like you. O kaya ay close tayo kaya hindi ako nangingiming yurakan ang nalalabing dignidad na inipit mo pa sa singit mong may libag. Kaya naman nung nabasa ko yon, nalungkot talaga ko. Kinabukasan pagpasok, sinigurado kong walang minutong papatahimik ko ang diwa nila. Lahat pinansin ko. Buhok nila, damit, hugis at kabuuang anyo. In short dumoble ang panlilibak ko. Ang unang magpakamatay, sya yung affected. haha.

Pero before i became the villain i was known today, i also experienced being bullied. <play senti music>

http://www.christianpeacekeepers.com/bully.html

First year high school, me at iilang classmates from elementary ang nagtransfer sa aming sister school, since walang high school na inooffer dun sa elementary school na pinanggalingan namin. It's definitely a new environment for me. From a batch of 14 students naging aroung 80 na hati sa 2 blocks. New place, new teachers at syempre new boys. Dun kasi sa pinanggalingan ko, kilala ko at kasundo ko na lahat pati na mga boys. I never felt alienated. Nothing but plain purity and virginity. haha. Pero nung lumipat na ko, dun na nagsimula ang masalimuot na mga tagpo.

Dun ko unang naranasan ang malamas ang boobs. YEP, kahit papatubo pa lang ang mura kong katawan, pinaglaruan na nila kagad. Doon din na pollute ang utak ko ng mga sobrang bastos na salita. Sexual words. and for some fu*ked up reason doon pa sa bandang likuran naka upo ang mga boys, magkaka hilera. So wala kaming choice ng mga Gay and nerdy friends kundi ang makasama sila. Bigla ko na lang maririnig ang mga makamundong usapan nila like kung sino ang unang *toooot* sa kin at kung sino ang unang magpapa *toot* sa kin. Dun ko natutunan ang ibig sabihin ng salitang bullying.

It doesn't need to be physical, or not just verbal abuse. When a person or a group makes the environment uncomfortable for someone, then, that's already Bullying.

Dumating pa sa point na hindi kami masyadong lumalabas ng room or pumupunta ng cafeteria, tiis gutom at ihi ang drama. Eww di ba. Kasi nga we try to be away from the bullies as often as possible. Pero di rin naman nagtagal, naka adjust na din ako. Well ADAPTATION is a more appropriate term. Mula sa isang pa virgin na hitad, naging isang fullgrown moth butterfly na ko. Kung nung una di ko nasasakyan o kaya ay nababastusan ako ang mga biro nila, ako na ang nagbibiro at nag iinitiate. Yung tipong bago pa man sila bumanat ng kabastusan eh, namanyak ko na muna sila. AHAHAHA. At up until now, we are all good friends. at ang tanging dasal ko sana sa iba, more than friends. lol

I can say na, liberated man ako today, it's part of a coping mechanism. And it is Positive in a certain way. It's either those bad experiences can turn you into a monster or you can use those to become a better, more beautiful being. Like me haha.

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At syempre pa, bullying can occur in almost all places. Meron tayong tinatawag na Cyberbullying. Kahit sa office o sa workplace. If a senior co-worker or officemate makes fun of a newbie or makes him feel like he is of lesser intelligence. Then that's bullying. Ang pagsingit sa pila ng ticket ng Mrt ay bullying din. Damn those senior citizens. haha

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Actually even those poor, helpless-looking senior citizens are also bullies in their own rights. Naranasan ko minsan na maunahan sa pinara kong taxi ng dalawang matandang babae. I was shocked! pero all they did was to look at me and smile. Yung ngiting parang nagsasabing, OOPS matanda ako, alam mo na yan. Funny pero minsan irritating din. Minsan pa nga, yung mga moment na kapag nahanap mo na ang inner peace sa pagkakaupo sa MRT o kaya sa bus tapos may biglang tatayong matanda sa harap mo, na papaupuin mo naman pero walang tigil sa pag "TSK" para lalo kang mappressure. Nagawa na rin sa kin yun. 

I did not move, not even a single hair. All i did is i simply smiled back as if saying, mamatay ka dyan bitch! hahaha. CHARO...

OH LIFE. ^___^

now heres' a clip, na nakita mo na din for sure but inspired me to write this post. Thanks Ben!!

Casey Haynes Stands up to bully

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